Okay, so you're in a rut. You're feeling hopeless and depression is beginning to set in. You've made a mistake.
What's next? Do you wallow in self-pity or get back up and start over?
"But what I did was so bad, so extreme, so sinful", is what you exclaim. Okay and?! Does it give you a right to self-loathe and keep re-living the past? Do you know that you're giving it more power by doing that?
Remember this… stop, breathe and refocus. It's time to re-strategize. Recall those goals you once set out to do before you stumbled; yeah the ones that's going to make you successful. Use the energy you're wasting in guilt and power your dreams.
Oh, and those feelings and emotions you felt before the fall, including the ones that may have led you into doing what you now regret, feel them, but this time, in the decision making process, choose to go the other route!
We all mess up whether intentionally or not but it shouldn't kill your dreams and your drive. One bad decision doesn't determine your character. Remember…. Refocus! 😘